“In every community, there is work to be done.”
“In every nation, there are wounds to heal. In every heart, there is the power to do it.”
This quote by Marianne Williamson struck a chord with me,
especially as I have just finished my first week of community block. I will be
honest (nothing new there) and say I was incredibly apprehensive about this
block for multiple reasons. The workload and the expectations being the biggest
stressor.
I have always wondered how 1 person (or 3 in my case) could
ever make a difference in a whole, established community. What on earth am I
going to do to make a difference in so many peoples lives. To be honest, the
weight of this thought really came crashing down on me the first time I saw the
community we were going to be a part of for the next 5 weeks. I was immensely
intimidated at the vastness of this community. The amount of people who were
looking at me as if I was just another student in a long line of students
trying to make a difference that never really translated to anything.
As you can imagine, this was rather stressful. For those
who know me, you will know I am one that never backs down from a challenge,
especially a challenge where people are expecting me to fail. For those of you
who don’t know me… well I guess you know me a little bit better now. I won’t
say that I am any less apprehensive, but I am definitely more motivated to
succeed.
Success. What an interesting word. Success is defined as “the
accomplishment of an aim or purpose.” ("Oxford Languages and Google -
English | Oxford Languages", 2020) This then begs the question: what is my
purpose? What is my aim? What do I hope to accomplish? As an occupational
therapist, I would say my purpose is to enable all those who have been
disabled. This can mean anything from physical disabilities, mental
disabilities, financial struggles, the list goes on and on. Anyone whose circumstances
has “disabled” them from living life the way most people do.
Majority of the cases seen at in the community I am
currently placed at is maternal and child health. Most people are very aware of
the issues resulting from poor child health, but for some odd reason, maternal
health seems to be unfortunate collateral damage in a very broken system where
there are already so many other seemingly more important “disabilities” and inequalities
to be addressed.
Maternal health and child health are highlighted due to the
high mortality rates noted in our country of South Africa. As a result,
services such as ante-natal and post-natal services are widely available to
improve health of the mother and baby to decrease these rates. Occupational
therapists can advise mothers on normal development and techniques to foster
normal development, such as stimulation and kangaroo mother care, which has
been researched to be hugely beneficial to infants of all families and
circumstances. These strategies can be employed with the children to facilitate
normal development and optimal growth.
While statistics like mortality after birth are often under
the spotlight, the mental challenges these mothers face after childbirth are kept
hush hush even though they are immense. “Worldwide about 10% of pregnant women
and 13% of women who have just given birth experience a mental disorder, primarily
depression.” ("WHO | Maternal mental health", 2020) This is a very
scary statistic! Occupational therapists are of importance in this as they are
able to teach coping skills and give advice on depression beaters so that these
mothers can cope with having someone dependant on them, while also realising
they need to take time to care for themselves.
I have always found that mothers are hesitant to speak
about the challenges they face as a result of becoming a mom. I want to provide
a safe environment where they feel comfortable to share their grievances so
that I can empower them to improve their current circumstances, which will in
turn improve their children’s circumstances.
Am I scared that I won’t be able to help these moms? Of course.
Am I going to move past that fear and give it my all? Of course!
I want to empower the disempowered. Enable the disabled.
Mend the damaged bridges and build new ones. I want to make a difference. I
want to succeed. My aim and my purpose is to help others accomplish their aims
and their purposes. What a wonderful way to define success?
There is so much work to be done. May my heart have the
power to do it.
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Williamson, M. (2020). 6 Inspiring Marianne Williamson
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